Long story short, I met this girl (we’re both 18) online and we started getting along really well, chatting quite frequently etc. I then asked if she wanted to meet up, and despite the 4 hour travel time between us she was down. However recently it feels like her interest has fallen off - I’ve been on delivered for sometimes over a day which makes it near impossible to make any plans. But when we do message she is enthusiastic and there will be spells when we’ll message pretty back and forth. These mixed signals have confused me so I want to ask her how she feels about me, but I’ve got no idea how to do this without seeming too desperate or pushy. How should I ask her?