So, Ive been on multiple dates and gone to mutiple singles events over the past few months. And it feels really dull because the women all seem the same. And then I notice I feel the same way about alot of dates over my 30s that I've been on. There's not much there to put that spark in me. Dont get me wrong, the women aren't rude and don't act bad during the date. But when the date is over, I feel like I've just been through a semi formal interview practice with food. I've even got what I like to call "The boredom question," that I ask with the hopes of stirring something up. It's more upsetting now from how many times I've gotten the word for word exact same answer. Q: "So tell me, You have a hobby you're passionate about." A: "I really love to travel."

Am I expecting too much? Does dating just change past your 20s that dramiatically? I dont't want to be hyperfixated on my partner. But the last wpman I went on multiple dates on I felt I could Marry, have kids with, get divorced, and told about her death, and I couldnt see any of the events having the same emotional impact on me which is to say barely any. My best friend hwo works in a constrution yard and has all the tools he could ever need to take care of himself in his truck, texted me that he had a flat tire and I felt more over that situation than my dating life right now