It’s become a problem, I’m nonbinary but present male, and I honestly think I grew to be attractive to others (which honestly surprised me given I use a cane)

I keep getting a lot of attention, keep getting touched up on, for the longest I’ve just focused on myself but since I’m cooling that down, I’ve been wanting to date and have sex again. I don’t struggle to talk to girls and in a way, I’m naturally playfully flirty, but when it comes to sealing the deal, I’m out of my league. I kinda just got lucky in the past.

It’s like I grew too considerate of girls, I don’t want to make them uncomfortable and initiate, but I also don’t really know what to do when I’m flirted with outside of just match their energy. Which works up until a point where it’s obvious I should make a serious move.

Take my job for example, I’m about to quit soon for greener pastures, so I’ve been flirting back instead of being a stiff and brushing it off, won’t have to work there long enough for everyone to be up in my business. There’s three girls there where I’ve been having a lot of chemistry with, I don’t like talking to multiple girls so there’s one in particular I’d like to date. We joke around, our energy match, and I honestly think her smile is fucking adorable. Another girl told me she’d get jealous if she saw me talking to other girls, she rubbed up on me saying I’m her favorite, literally everything is lining up for me to make my move.

But outside of telling her that I like how cute her smile is, I have no idea what else to. Maybe initiate a hug, but that’s it. I’m a very straightforward person so all the dancing around towards a date or sex isn’t in my ball park. Which is probably why I got so lucky in my teens