Last night I finally went out with a girl I have been talking for a month on Instagram. First of all, I want to mention that she has been very open and told me she had been dating other people (nonsexual way). Just this month along, she has had four dates including ours.

Last night, we went to see have dinner first, then movie, and then cafe. She was polite as I paid for dinner and she voluntarily offered me a shot and drink. During the movie, she was cold and she held my hand for the entire movie. During the cafe time, we had chats and overall I felt very comfortable with her, and she also laughed and smiled throughout our conversation.

After the date, we were chatting on Instagram, and she told me she would like to hangout with me and get to know me more. She said I was super cute, but before she met me she called me handsome boy.

But today, I feel her replies to me have been a bit off and short. Like the longest message she sent me today was “I went food shopping, ate and collected thy child.” Yes, she asked me how I was doing along with other questions, but when I replied by saying I was walking on the sidewalk, she gave me “??”. And I had to remind her that she asked me what I was doing…so I feel she didn’t really pay attention to me. Then, she told me I was super cute.

So overall, I feel she gives me signals that she is interested in me, but at the same time, I feel she is not that interested in me.

Anyone can give me advice or suggestions?