I’ve been talking to a guy, we had a first date and it went really great. We kissed quite a bit towards the end of the date and he said he wanted to see me again. So the next evening he messaged and asked about my day etc and started talking about second date plans. So we texted throughout the week, we had a second date yesterday, it went well again. We met at a bar, and we talked the whole time until it started closing. So he asked if i wanted to go to his place since its close. And i agreed. We talked for a while there and then started making out. I didn’t sleep with him and there was nothing crazy sexual. Just heavy making out on the bed. When i was leaving he said “see you soon” and text me when you get home safe etc. And he even texted to day again for me to text him when i got home. So its the next day now and i texted him in the afternoon to say that I had fun yesterday and he responded maybe 4 hours later (he does have a slow texting pattern but is always in engaged in conversation and asking me questions so it doesnt concern me) and he basically just said that he had fun too and sorry hes a terrible texter

I have anxious attachment style so i could be tweaking for nothing but i think because of my bad past experiences with guys, im scared that i did too much with him too soon? Like is he going to start being low effort or does he sound like he doesnt want to see me again? Its rare that i actually like someone and feel a spark this early on so i want so badly to like him without fear that its going to fizzle out. I just have my guard up and feeling anxious now.

But did i fuck up by making out on the second date or going to his place ??

Im F btw