So recently I have started talking with someone, we really hit it off on the first date and have now been talking with them for about a mouth and a half. now obviously this isnt a huge amount of time but we have spent a good bit of it together as she currently doesn’t work and im laid off.

ive always been super goal oriented and she is not and sometimes it can be frustrating as its not something i can personally fully carry the weight of money wise solo.

im pretty new to the entire dating scene even though i am 24.. getting to know this girl has been okay but she definitely has alot of mental health issues which is fine but at some points its like she cant get enough of me and other points its like she sees me as a terrible person (all relates to her issues), physical connection is something im really big on and i really dont get alot of it from this person. im not saying it has to be all the time but a makeout here and there would be nice but it doesn’t happen almost ever.

i have alot of mixed feelings this early into this relationship and feel like it would be best for me to be honest and upfront sooner then dragging it on. she is kinda already super obsessed about me and i don’t really feel that same way, and feel terrible about actually letting her down. how do i go about telling her? i honestly wouldnt feel comfortable doing it in person as i dont want a lash out or anything, do i drop whatever belongings at her door? what should i do to go about this :/

any advice is much appreciated