So had two dates with a girl i liked, first date was great but then there was some time inbetween the second due to her being sick. Second date was nice but was more awkward than the first. We kissed on both dates and now i'm wondering if i blew it? Christmas and new years have come and gone and i was using that as a excuse for why she might be getting back slowly. Our last messages were about her taking it easy for christmas and still being sick and to get back to me when she's better. It's been around 10-11 days now and i'm considering if i should message to check in how she's feeling or if i'm possibly being ghosted. I already asked a few friends and they said replying/double texting after asking her to get back to me when she's better might make me look weak/needy? i've noticed her sporadically watching my instagram stories but not watching all of them which i find a little odd. Ultimately i'm willing to take the L but yeah hoping that's not the case.

Any thoughts or advice appreciated.