I’ve been seeing this guy for about three months now. We’ve been having fun, going on dates, and getting to know each other. Recently, I went on vacation for a few weeks, and while I was away, we kept in touch.. texting regularly and sharing photos.

Now that I’m back, we’ve planned another date, and as I was texting him, I added “I miss you” to the message. At the time, it felt like a sweet, honest thing to say, but now I’m overthinking it. What if it’s too much too soon? Could it come across as clingy or make him feel pressured?

He hasn’t read the text yet, and I’m starting to feel anxious about how he might react. I don’t want to seem like I’m rushing things or moving faster than he is emotionally. He’s been really sweet.. he even suggested we try something I love on our next date.. but we’re still figuring each other out, and I’m not sure if he’s at the “I miss you” level yet.

I don’t regret being honest, but part of me is wondering if I should’ve held back. Was this too soon to say, or does it just show I care? I guess I’ll find out when he replies, but I’m nervous about whether I went too far or if this could actually bring us closer. What do you think.. was this a mistake, or am I just overthinking it?