Inspired by another similar thread, im curious about guys experiences with these dynamics. Theres always attraction and chemistry to traits one doesnt possess. Mainly want to hear from guys who were part of these dynamics or have good awareness of things out there.

But few thoughts come to mind as well: Dominant men rarely want dominant or difficult women. And women tend to want the top dogs, which is why these women often end up in relationships with softer/feminine dudes.

While theres strong attachment there, sex and arousal is tied to power, and has nothing to do with attachment and love. It seems like this dynamic is somewhat less fulfilling compared to when the man is the dominant one, as thats a double win.

In my personal experience, the woman eventually started complaining/being critical, as on some level they want a man bigger and stronger than them so that they can finally relax.

Also the dominant woman tends to have a stronger zest/lifestyle desire, which a chill sensitive dude doesnt care that much about.

I almost want to say its a high chemistry situation with a dose of necessity that will never work out great in the long term because of natural biological gender wants/power.

What do you guys think?