So, I’m 21M, and she’s 19F. She has a boyfriend, and they’ve been dating for a while. But here’s the thing—she constantly vents to me about her problems or random stuff and always tells me that I’m the only person she feels like she can talk to.

She also sends me Snapchat videos all the time, and before she started dating him, we used to play video games until 2 in the morning and work out together all the time. When she first told me about him, she said she felt pressured to go out with him. I don’t know if that’s changed since then.

Even now, though, it feels like she still relies on me a lot. I’m not sure if she sees me as just a close friend or if there’s something more there. I don’t want to overthink it, but I also don’t want to miss any signals. I also don’t want to homewreck I just want closure. I don’t plan on saying anything.