I’m 19F, and I’ve been going out with this really cool guy I met a few weeks ago. We had two dates that went great.. he seemed so sweet, and I really clicked with him right away. On our second date, everything just felt right, so we ended up sleeping together. He was super gentle and made me feel safe, which honestly surprised me in the best way. Afterward, he told me to let him know when I got home and said he had an amazing night.

I was on cloud nine, so the next morning, I texted him saying I’d love to see him again. It’s now been a week, and he’s completely silent. Not even a little reply. I’m worried that maybe I messed things up by sleeping with him so soon.. did I scare him off? Or is he just busy, and I’m overthinking?

I keep telling myself I’m being paranoid, but it’s hard not to freak out when someone vanishes right after things get super intimate. Any advice or thoughts?