Back in June (6 months ago), I found her online, texted her, and we figured out each other’s age (f19-m24). Since she’s on the younger side, I decided to let her know and leave her alone. She was really pretty, so I kept her on my Snapchat. A month or two later, she suggested we do a Spotify jam session because we realized we posted similar music. She kept posting pictures where she looked mature and complimenting my new hairstyle. She also told me she listened to my music I make on SoundCloud and liked it, saying she saw the inspo I took from one of the artists we both enjoy. I suggested we call for the music jam, but she left me on delivered(or half swipe.)

Three or four months later, when she shared her insta post on Snapchat, I followed her Insta, and she followed back. That gave me more insight into her aesthetic, which made me like her more. I complimented a new cut she posted a while later through her DMs, and she responded with a thank you and a blush emoji.

I decided to comment and call her “my Angel” on one of her Instagram story posts. She replied with a “Hii” and mentioned being upset I hadn’t invited her to a concert I went to that I mentioned of the artist we both r like. I said she “be ghosting too much,” she apologized and said she’d been busy. I let her know it was all good and there’d be a next time, but she didn’t respond.

One month passes, now late November, I responded to another story about tattoos and suggested we get some together. She said yesss, but didn’t take it further. After she replies to a second comment I send to another story, I sent a playful voice message asking her to stop playing and let’s chill already. She took two weeks to reply with a voice message in a silly voice saying something like, “Girl, I don’t know, I might be able to hang out soon, I’m trying to like go outside.” I responded a few hours later with a bold comment, “Don’t call me that, I’m daddy.” She replied five days later with “Tell, Daddy, tellll”

I took that as her leaving it up to me to set up a time to meet, but I wasn’t sure when I’d be able to, so I waited. A week went by, and I finally sent a voice message saying that was kinda hot, that I’d be in her city at the end of next month, and that I’d hit her up closer to then. Out of curiosity, I checked my Instagram story viewers and noticed she hadn’t been viewing them. I then found out she had unfollowed me. I wondered when that happened. I checked Snapchat, and she’s still viewing my stories daily there frequently.

I know some might comment on how childish it seems to check views and all, but I’m assuming this might just be some kind of pullback game people play to create more mystery or attraction. It could also mean the opposite. I feel like I’ll get more clarity once she has time to respond, but I’m charged about this. Should I keep moving forward with this game or leave it alone?

Some points to consider: She’s micro-famous, gets a lot of attention, and has DJs and club owners trying to meet her. She probably has tons of new DMs daily.

If you suggest I pursue someone who doesn’t play these kinds of games, I do that too, but for some reason, those feelings are never as intense as this. It’s exciting, to say the least. What should I do?