So just a little summary,

recently i had a second date with someone i was worried i'd lost a bit of a spark with due to them being sick for a little while. In the end we had the second date after they reached out, they were obviously more low energy than last time and i felt the conversation didn't flow as naturally nor was there nearly as much sexual tension. We didn't get the chance to check out more than a food place and a bar and the latter wasn't overlay conducive for a romantic date but i stuck with it. I myself was quite in my head about things as well as having some pain that took some focus away. This person is very much in a exploration phase and openly implied they wanted to go and check out a certain club known for being "sex positive" and likely could get in through friends. i had stated that this certain club in my city was a bit sordid after stories i had heard from people being mistreated there as well as what i've experienced there and i don't want to be going there too often. I had mentioned there are better places that aren't too dissimilar but they didn't really take the bait. I feel i may shot myself in the foot and now the spark or tension we had building has lessened. We had been flirting heavily on the first date and over text, we kissed on both dates although saying goodbye felt a bit off the second time due to going in the same direction home. they were mentioning their new kinky outfit and wanting to wear it out but no current plan for us to party together has come together. They also implied they could be busy over the next weeks which is understandable (Christmas).

Ultimately while this club isn't my favourite i would be open to giving it another chance. How should i proceed from here and what are peoples thoughts? I will try to read the room for this weekend and afterwards and i get the impression it's a bit too short notice for us to do anything this weekend anyway (i already have plans that i was considering inviting them to).