Been on multiple dates with this girl over the last month or so, it’s been super wholesome had sex done everything etc

Anyways I told her from the start I wasn’t looking for a hookup and wanted something real and obviously down the track relationship etc

Anyways she said that’s also what she was looking for but then I asked her again just to make sure for myself and she hit me with “honestly I don’t think I want anything too serious right now, just abit of fun go on some fun adventures”

I questioned her on it and told her I am not looking for a hookup or “friend” and if that’s what you want go find another person and she went back on it and said she wants something real just not right now

she messages me everyday and says shit like “hope you don’t break my heart”

I am a 1 girl guy, if I am interested in someone I only message them, I am not fucking around on hinge/tinder messaging multiple people at a time if I am seeing someone

Anyways she’s always insecure with me going to work (I am a pt) because she knows I work with girls at the gym and train girls.

She doesn’t have anything to worry about as I don’t cheat fully against it and have always been.

Anyways, I’ve told her this and other day she wanted to know what guys I’ve told about her, couple of my mates know about it, but she wanted to know specific names etc, which was little red flag like aha

Anyways question is should I just straight up be “are you talking to other guys” and then end it if she is? Or ask her to stop even though we aren’t dating

Reason is pisses me off is she doesn’t want me talking to other girls and says shit like “hope you don’t break my heart” and then doesn’t wanna tell me if she is getting around

Anyways if anyone had similar problems lmk thanks 👍🏼👍🏼