I can't even post in other dating subreddits due to "karma" lmao...

31m. I'm tired of hearing the "you're so sweet with a pure heart! The person who will get to be with you is gonna be so lucky!! But we're just not compatible..." or some crap like that.

I'm trying to slim down and get in shape. Most the time in apps, I get one reply or so and then poof. To the void they disappear and I never get a response back.

In person, people always have earphones in, or are on the phone. In social settings for activities, I'm not attracted to the people that are there. The idea of "love comes when you're not looking!" Is also disproved crap and last time that happened, my partner nearly killed me. My friend groups where women do show up, said women are already taken.

I'm not going to just do more hobby stuff I'm interested in just to potentially find someone.

I'm exhausted. Beyond exhausted. Why is dating so stupid. Why are people so frustrating. I can't do this anymore.

Sorry to vent, but, fuck.