So I'm 29M and first of all I don't really have friends, or have dated in forever so sorta a lonely dude. I've been talking to this really awesome chick I met at work for a few months and well we are just friends which is great for me really.

I've been really trying to put myself out there these past few months and change alot. Talking to her has taught me a ton about myself and cause it's more of a friendship I don't feel alot of pressure. Anyway I feel we could be good friends by now, I asked her to be a roomate, she said yes but she has a bf, obviously he said no but that shows I think we are pretty cool with eachother.

You think it's weird if I ask her what she thinks of me as a person? I am still hesitant on opening up and being vulnerable ever it's very hard for me but I'd love to know what a new person thinks of Me, how I come off you know? To me just asking this is very hard, I feel she could be weirded out by it I dunno..im trying to learn who I am. I dunno if people ask others a question like this