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A great 1st date, now she's been sick...potential loss of a spark?
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So i had a great first date with a girl recently, great conversation, intelligent, very pretty and grounded in terms of personality. it's been some time since i met a girl like this, she's new to my city and is also relatively new to the dating scene. In my city most girls are heavily in to partying, clout and drugs as the priority and everything else that comes with that. I enjoy a good party but i prefer something with a better sense of community and a focus on the music. So i saw that she isn't one of these girls as a big green flag. So we get along very well, ended up making out passionately at the end of the night but unfortunately she had to go home as she had work the next day. We had planned to meet mid way through this week however she got sick but the fact that she offered another day to meet relatively soon was a good sign. Cut to yesterday (friday) where she told me she still feels sick. Her texts of her disappointment that she cant't come seem genuine but i'm worried that after two potential dates planned being missed the spark/flame might die out. We've been flirting over text and it's actually one of the first times in a while where i've made it very clear i find her attractive and actively want to see her. I'm tired of playing games. She's said as soon as she's better we will essentially continue where we left off but i can't help worry a little that someone else might swoop in or the time inbetween makes things flounder. I've been burnt by putting my focus all on one person before and i'm aware we only had one date. Also that i made it so clear i'm into her, feel like i may have shot myself in the foot.

So what would you do in this situation, how should i proceed from here? How much time should i give things? I feel like the ball is in her side of the court and i'm leaving myself open to seeing other girls as crappy as it feels.

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