I’ve been seeing this guy for almost two months now. The most recent time we met up, I sensed a shift in his energy. He seemed more… lively. In the past, our meetups were mostly at his place or involved going out for drinks, which felt more casual. But this time, we actually went to the movies, sober. For the first time, he tried holding my hand, and it threw me off because it felt… too intimate. Later, when we had sex, he was handling me gently, kissing me softly and intertwining his hands with mine. It was vanilla, lol. Sex was still great as usual, but something about his gentleness caught me off guard. He’s never tried to hold my hand like that during sex before. I’m not saying it’s a bad thing or that I’m complaining. it was a nice feeling, the kind that gave me butterflies in my stomach. But now I’m wondering if this means something, or am I just overthinking it?