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First real “talking stage” didn’t work out
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Am I wrong here?

So I go skating a lot. There’s this guy that I had seen in passing for around 1-2 years. We never talk to each other.

Out of nowhere he starts saying hi, waving, etc. One day he decided to come up to me and actually have a convo. We have a lot in common. The convo is smooth. I decided I like him. I continue to see him probably once a week skating. We skate. We talk about dumb shit and about important shit. I get excited (but obviously don’t show it). I talk about him in passing to my friends.

I work up some nerve and flirt a little. Nothing crazy but a lot for me since I’m more shy.

One day we end up going to the same adult skate night and we skate together the whole night. It was really really fun. I’ve always wanted a regular person to skate with. He’s much better than me in a skatepark and I’m much better than him on a rink. People see us skating together. He says we should do it again. I say ok. A few days later he dms me on insta asking if I’m going to the next one the day of.

I had just had a terrible terrible week in college and I was feeling really really bad. I didn’t feel like I had the energy to socialize with anyone. So I told him I was at the skating event but I was leaving early.

Fast forward a week, I’m sitting in my car outside of the skatepark we both frequent and this girl in a dress zooms on a city scooter and following her on a scooter is the guy I had been skating/talking with. I look up and he sees me see him and stumbles to the point where he ends up off of his scooter and awkwardly waves as he gets back on.

He had told me he really had issues talking to girls but obviously this was not entirely true. I decide right there that I’m too busy with college and I don’t want to play the talking stage any more. I block him on insta and ignore him whenever I see him which is a few times a month at skating events.

He brought the scooter girl to the Halloween skate and a normal skate party. Though after those two times I didn’t see her again.

When I first started ignoring him I could tell he was surprised. I could feel him looking at me wondering if I would acknowledge him. It’s been around 2 1/2 months of that.

I always told myself it was a bad ideas because if it didn’t work out I would continue to see him.

The other night I dressed up and went to a skate night and he was there. I was skating in the middle and I can hear him say my name. I decide I’ll acknowledge him since it would be rude to ignore him when he actually addressed me. He say “what’s going on?”.

By his tone and facial expression I can tell he means about me ignoring him and probably blocking him. I just say “we’re skating. Right? We’re skating” and skate away.

Idk my brother say I lack maturity. But I just kinda felt like I one of multiple girls that this guy was entertaining and that I didn’t want that. I also think the flirting was obvious and that he clearly knew I was into him. Anyways luck for me, when he asked me the question the other night I look at him and realized I really didn’t like him anymore.

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