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Met a guy online, flew to him last summer, ghosted me two months after. What am I doing wrong?
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So, as the title says. I (33F) met a guy (31M) online. We talked consistently for a year. I even flew to see him for the summer, and we had some plans to see each other again in April.

I didn't push for exclusivity since it's weird to do that after 1 meeting. But we were good, it was nice and chill. And we were clear, tell each other if it was going to end.

Cut to a month ago and he just ghosted me out of nowhere. Not a word, just gone. I've deleted him now but I've just been so frustrated at the dating scene.

What am I doing wrong?

ETA: Damn, everybody thinking it was all about sex. It's not like we were talking about sex for a whole year. We talked about our achievements, our struggles, hardships and triumphs. There for all the big stuff and the mundane things.

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