21F, I’m in a bit of a tricky situation and need some advice. I’ve developed strong feelings for a close friend of mine, and lately, there’s been some flirtation and chemistry between us. I really like them, and I’ve been thinking about exploring more intimate, “dirty” playtime, but I’m nervous since it would be my first time doing anything like this with a friend.

I’m not sure how to bring it up or if it’s even a good idea. I really value our friendship, and I don’t want to make things awkward or risk ruining what we have. But at the same time, I don’t want to hold back if it could be a fun, consensual experience.

Has anyone else been in a situation where they were considering taking a friendship to a more intimate level? How did you handle the conversation and the nerves? How do you make sure both people feel comfortable and respected throughout the experience?

Any advice on how to approach this would be greatly appreciated!