So, recently, I (22m) installed dating apps again. I then messaged some girls on these apps. Eventually that lead to dates. Which is great!

... except, now I'm kind of feeling guilty, because more than one of these dates went well. So, although it's only been one date and I haven't kissed like on any of them yet, I kinda feel like I'm cheating.

Like, I think it's kind of inherent to dating apps that everyone is talking to everyone, and you're certainly not committed after a single date. What I'm really looking for here isn't casual sex, I want to feel a genuine spark. And it seems like the way to do that Is to date till you find it.

So, question is, is it immoral or unethical to be going on dates with more than one girl this early on? I'm afraid if I were to go all in on one of them rn before I've really gotten to know them. I realize it may be a bit selfish, but I also feel like I sort of have to be to be successful.