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The sad truth is that love will never be enough to save your relationship at least not the way today’s culture has defined it. I don’t even care that you love each other. Anyone with the brain and a pulse can fall in love, but I had to learn the hard way that love doesn’t sustain a relationship, connection and intimacy and safety and trust do. those require a lot more than just love don’t they? That’s great that you love each other. Here’s a better question, do you respect each other? Does your Partner feel respected and valued? Do you even care anymore? Do you work to appreciate each other? Do you serve each other mutually and can you take accountability when you mess up? Can you repair conflicts together? Can you listen when they say you accidentally hurt them? Can you be vulnerable? Are you a safe place for them to be vulnerable and honest about what they need to feel valued because loves not going to be enough. how you love each other is what’s going to make the difference. For those of you who are married saying I do doesn’t mean you can. It just means you want to. Unfortunately relationships success has nothing to do with your intentions. It has everything to do with humility and putting inside your ego becoming a team together with each of you cares how the other feels loved valued, and prioritized.
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