I don't consider myself feminine at all but apparently for some women I am.

A lot of the women I have casually dated can be fascinating but would often drift to the macho slob type. It never really goes beyond three or four dates with me. Things never click.

I don't really enjoy watching sports but I do cycling, swimming, and occasionally tennis, I am tall and healthy, but I also wear glasses and have a slim body.

But Im not really a "bro" to put it very colloquially and this, according to some women in my experienc e, is considered to be feminine, that is to say, the lack of broey habits and tastes makes me unmanly and therefore somewhat of an androgynous man.

Now when I go to Holland and Flanders, two places which I like, this isn't too much the case but even there I can be a little too androgynous for women, better than the US where I live, but only by a margin.

Am I making any sense here? Im not effeminate, I just don't like a lot of the things most men my age (29) like such as videogames, sports, etc... I don't like fuckboy music either, which is something I noticed a lot of people like. I guess in Antwerp and Rotterdam I vibe more to the electronic scene there but even that can be overwhelming for me.