Ok, I (27f) is currently in a relationship with a 32m. This is our second month together (yeah its too soon) but he's been very quiet like, we would chat then he'd ghost me till whenever he remembers to reply back, which is usually a day and a half if i greet him the next day. I have asked him to give me a heads up if he is busy, "i just finished dinner and feeling, might fall asleep before i msg back" etc, but he just said that he didnt know it would happen. Another thing is he would just ignore me few hours on end, and i also brought this up to him, and he said that this is a 50/50 relationship, so i should put effort, meaning i should initiate convo, which ive been trying to do for a couple of weeks now. I feel neglected, ignored and gaslit.... what should i do, like im close to calling it quits but i think i should work on it?

Ive also talked to a friend a out this, and he said to move on since the bf is unbothered.