I will be 100% genuine here and I want serious advice from you guys who were on the same boat but then things got better. I am Indian guy who went to Canada to make my future bright in the IT industry. I am doing good job in IT. When I was in college here, I had my first girlfriend which you can basically consider a situationship as she was alone and just wanted company and we came into relationship, although it didn't ended well and we broke up after 8 months which was initiated by her. Now at this time , even though I want to focus on my career but still that empty space made when she left still haunt me. In my social circle every girl is committed and Bumble Hinge doesn't work for me as I am average looking guy. I still check all the marks of being funny, loyal, confident, have a good job and money but still I am unable to find anyone who can be my partner. My self esteem went down extremely and I am even taking therapy to move on from past relationship as I still have obsessive thoughts to meet my ex again but I will not as I already know there is no hope. There are many many girls out there, I see them with guys worst looking than me and even have no personality at all. Maybe it was all about luck. All the girls from my college, they just got friendzoned because I expected long term relationship with my ex. So there is no girl my circle. I tried meetup app so we can meet people but when I got there I saw 40-45 years old were playing cards with few middle aged women and I just came back that how I will match vibe with them. I am basically alone. I love psychology and know what girls look for in guys how I should react. But for that things the thing is that I have to be with someone, I have to meet someone which seems impossible. For me biggest problem is the start. I know I can make everything work out, but problem is there is no one to start. You cannot ask for strangers. Your friend circle is has friendzoned you and most of them are in relationship. Bumble Hinge doesn't work. So I am basically cooked?? I feel jealous when I saw guys with 0 personality and looks have girls on their side and I have nothing left. Please if anyone can give me advice I will really appreciate. Thanks for reading my story and my pain.🙏🙏