I’m a 5’9 latino man. I have red hair now (not the whole head just a patch) I have some piercings, stretched ears, some tattoos and an overall very deathcore/deathmetal/emo image to myself. I have a job, a car and decent communication skills. Oh and I just got my braces off lol. Pretty smile :p

But im having a very hard time seeing these women out in public. I only ever see them at concerts (but all of them are with another person or man anyway) I see them at tattoo conventions (which only come like once a year) maybe goth prom. There’s emo night too. But there’s always music blasting all the time, which makes it difficult to talk to women. I’ve tried the mall multiple times. No luck. My local library has no goth or emo women.

My love life has just been very dry lately, and my therapist told me to seek out more goth or emo women. I stopped using Tinder and bumble.

And I would attach photos of myself, but this subreddit doesn’t allow it. Hey, any advice is greatly appreciated.