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Reverse no-strings-attached date: just the date, no sex or mention of sex, no inappropriate touching with the exception of handholding.
Iām (25F) willing to pay a flat $20 for the peace of mind and comfort of just having some wholesome fun while getting to know a really cute guy. I donāt want the pressure to sleep with anyone on the first couple dates.
Iām not religious or low libido or anything, I just yearn for non-sexual intimacy and romance. I want to experience a fun, carefree date with someone my age without having to feel like I owe him something. Iāve tried to voice this preference for free and it just seems like guys arenāt interested if they know theyāre not getting any coochie. I mostly want to offer this for activity based dates: picnics, roller skating, hiking, carnival trips. You know, fun stuff!
Does the price seem fair? Do you think this will work? Any feedback would really help
I just graduated college so my budget is kinda tight. Plus Iām hoping To build a legit relationship out of this. It seems expensive to try to pretty woman my way into a relationship with a professional
Itās disheartening to get ghosted right after giving a guy your all so would you rather have sex or $20?
I have boundaries I just hate having to even hear the creepy suggestions. Itās such a turn off
I have female friends! I just want to delay the sexual part of a romantic relationship
I donāt select those type of guys :( in fact being attractive is a red flag for me. I go for my looksmatch or lower and I still get the same results
āFind better guysā Easier said than done. At this point I give a chance to any guy whoās interested in me. I just donāt think these ābetter guysā are interested
I have friends? I just want to delay the physical aspect
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No I would love a romantic partner, I just want the opportunity to have a wholesome date first. I was hope we each pay for each other and the $20 is just a rebate, but if it sweetens the deal Iām willing to pay for the whole date