So I [27F] met someone [31M] on a dating app and on his profile said that he was looking for short term fun, something in between a ONS and short term FWB. He said that he was not into texting, so he would just message me to invite me to come over to his place. After a few days I ended up going to his place and we had sex, but I was surprised because we really were having a fun conversation getting to know each other a bit before the sex.

The sex itself was ok, usually first times with someone are not the greatest sex. He seemed a little frustrated cause I couldn’t cum, and after I showered I went to put my clothes on. The after sex part was a bit awkward cause I really didn’t know what to expect, I’m not really use to having hookups or ONS.

He then walked me to my bus station and waited for my bus with me. He told me to message him once I was home and I did, and that was the last time I spoke with him, which was 2 days ago.

As he stated that he was looking for short term fun, idk if I should message him or something. I like him and he’s someone that I’d like to know better and maybe spend more time with, but since that isn’t what he’s looking for, I don’t know if I should even bother.

What would you recommend? Has anyone been through something like this? Thanks!