I met a guy few months ago, super nice an ex alcoholic. Almost died of liver disease but somehow survived with good diet and determination. He turned his life around. This is few years ago. He's really, really nice. Only thing I hate is he don't drive due to his DUI records. He can but he refuses to get his driver's license and special DUI car. Got a good job can afford a car bit wont get one. I know I'm being superficial and a selfish bitch if I'm breaking up with him because of this reason. He never ask me to give him rides and complicates my life but I hated it because I don't want to accommodate his bus schedule routine. Yes, selfish indeed. I have missed timelines or thrown off to fit in with his routine because of his work, bus schedule and I simply can't do it anymore. Eg. Why can't I see you tonight, no bus is running this late, Uber is expensive, not available.. It's ok babe you don't have to come to get me.. etc, etc. So much inconveniences. That sort of scenario. He's very patience with me and will always make it up the next time around. I don't know if it's worth it? I have a medical procedure next week where I need to be driven and this is where I'm frustrated about. I have to rely on someone else, what good of having a boyfriend who is not doing anything to help.. I'm just annoyed at this point but I do love him a lot