ever since i started dating seriously when i turned 18 (im 21f now) ive been attracting the same guys and it’s exhausting. I’m a lover girl at heart that’s very caring and open about my emotions and i just keep coming in contact with these men that love bomb me and everything is good for a minute and then completely out of no where leave me because they are “going through something mentally and it’s not you it’s me”. I completely understand because i have severe MDD and go through hard times and bad days like everyone else. but why pursue me and treat me a certain way knowing you’re going through something and aren’t really ready. This not only happened once but three time basically back to back and my heart can’t take it anymore. I’m too nice and genuine of a person to continue being punished like this i truly hate this new generation of dating. please if someone could give me some guidance it would be appreciated.