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I've been dating this girl for about three months now, and I'm not sure how to bring this up without causing offence to her. How do I deal with this situation, or should I move on completely and start daring other women again?
Well, there were some things I didn't like and I don't know if it's something I should've cared about at the time.
She was very weird when it came to money.
For examples in chronological order:
I paid for tickets to this event and for the uber there which was about £70 total. When we got there she bought loads of drinks for herself but not once offered to buy me one during the night.
We went for drinks the week after. We sat at the bar and I went to the toilet. When I came back she bought a drink for herself and not me.
She invited me to the theatre with her friends. Tickets were only £10 each, so I asked if she could grab mine. She did. 10mins later she sends me a link to bank transfer her the money.
Went for Pizza. She asked if we could split the pay. Not too bothered about this one.
Lastly, she invited me to this painting event. Her friend works there, so we were able to go for FREE cos not many people signed up this time. It's two hours long.
The next day I asked I can only be there for 45mins as I need to be someplace later. She sends me a link to buy tickets for £35 (?).
I tell her I don't want to go cos I don't want to pay that much if I'm only there for 45mins. So, she begs me to join her and says it's for for free. Why make me £35 earlier then?
Money isn't an issue with me, but it is the selfishness that was bothering me.
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