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Been seeing a girl for a month now and she doesn’t initiate texting unless i do
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I have been seeing this girl for about a month now. Initially it was super easy in terms of communication, i.e., she kept checking on how my day was going and that she’s thinking about me and plan fun things to do with me. Eventually, after a while she stopped texting me first but replies back promptly when i text first, doesn’t flake out, makes plans with me and reschedules if something comes up etc. From the few dates that ive been with her on she was so nice to me, and it feels as if nothing changed at all and I noticed during these few times that she’s someone who likes my attention, wants me to pick her up for the date, opens the door for her etc. The last time we spoke over a call she even did schedule to go on an activity date in a couple of days too. But im someone who likes reciprocation, knowing that there’s someone out there waiting to hear back from me or wanting to talk to me. It’s not that I don’t mind texting first but it just feels to get that energy back and not have me go down a spiral/rabbit hole of overthinking. Anyways it’s been more than a day since I initiated the first text and haven’t heard back from her. Should I be worried? I really like this girl and I don’t want to fuck up by overthinking through this and not texting her or by saying something stupid that might sound needy! I would like to get any advice that might help and im being serious

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