Okay so backstory

I’ve been seeing this girl for about 3 months now. We knew each other from a couple years back because we’re both musicians and ended up playing in groups together.

It wasn’t until this January that we started talking and things moved in a more romantic direction. She teased me about not kissing her on the first date, things kept moving great and eventually we had sex, and it was actually very comfortable for both of us. More than that, we actually got along as friends. We’d listen to albums and write music and read books together and do a bunch of really chill activities.

The thing is, she told me from day one that she was interested in being single. And I get it.. I don’t think I’m ready for a relationship in my life either. I just felt like we were really getting tight as friends. We saw eachother a bunch right before spring break, I even made sure that she’d ask me to hang out occasionally so it wasn’t one sided. I didn’t overstep my bounds, I didn’t try to force a relationship. We’d kiss and it was cute and she seemed into it.

Fast forward through spring break. She doesn’t reach out. We don’t text for nearly a week. We never really texted so I didn’t think much of it. Got back from spring break and she’s too busy getting back into school to hang out. Fine. Same thing the next week. And now I’m here just like what the fuck man. Maybe she thought I only was interested in dating her.. which isn’t true. I am into her but I was so down with the low commitment friendship we had going. It was very fun. We didn’t even have sex hardly ever so I don’t I could have made an impression that’s what im looking for.

Anyways, we still text occasionally but haven’t seen each other in 3 weeks. I’ve never confronted her yet because we’re not in a relationship and I feel like that in itself might scare her off. I don’t know what the fuck to do. Kind of hurt.