So iv been seeing this girl from work thro what I thought was a friend of mine he said how much he wish she just leave him alone and how annoy she was but he showed me the texts and she was really sweet he'd been trying to break it off for a min I think he said well me and her start hanging out and about month is in I find out she's been seeing him seeing him still here and there and I confronted her about this she said she didn't think we were dating witch I'm not sure I just expressed taking things slow dureing that time but when I found out I wanted to be exclusive cuz iv always not wanted her to hang with him fast fowerd things have been ok she always wants to spend time with me so I was always at her house or her at mine and with the long hours we just came home made dinner hung out and slept stuff like that days we had off we spent doing outher stuff solo or together she had expressed she had feelings about him still but has chosen me and it seems like she's un sure now because she says she's not ready for a relationship but I can still go to her house and spend time with her and stuff but no sex I got a lill upset saying is this just so u can mess with outher guys and save face she kept saying that it wasn't and just need time to herself I asked her if she was gonna be seeing anyone dureing that time and she said she's not planing on it bit dosent want to say no entirely in case it happens I dint know what to say to that cuz I asked her if she just wanted me to leave her alone fully and she said no but wants more time away I'm pretty upset about this witch is weird with it only being a 3 is month long deal I feel embarrassed like I'm over reacting I'm not sure what to do or feel and if it helps for any more back ground she was married about a year in high school because they had a kid she left him got with said guy for awhile then he didn't want he as he told me then I started seeing her and she kinda played wife from the start with me haveing me around the kid and her family alot talking me up