I met an attractive woman yesterday on one of the apps and we’ve had a good conversation. I asked about meeting for brunch today (it’s now scheduled for later), but it’s a 2 hour drive for me and I said that I only wanted to do this if she had high enthusiasm as well. This was her response, which includes a couple of red flags: 1. serious physical chemistry, and 2. makes me laugh. Now that I think about it, her expectations seem unrealistic and I don’t want to drive 4 hours for 1 percent odds. What do you think? Yay or nay?

“I am enthusiastic, but don't mistake that for easy or desparate. I want serious physical chemistry as well as an intellectual connection and someone who makes me laugh before I share myself with someone. That said, I'm perfectly fine with going dutch and parting friends if we find it's not there. Scare you off yet?”

PS: ages are late 50s