I went out to a karaoke night at the local bar I love in Baltimore called the Ottobar. I went with my wife for our date night. We are both swingers and have been for the last two years. We have been married since 2019. We both love each other very much and find swinging brings us together because it's something we do mostly together. We have some solo partners, but we ALWAYS communicate and have great vibes with most people we connect with.

Anyway, my wife and I went out for Karaoke/trivia night on a Wednesday at one of our favorite bars. My wife worked very hard at the office that day, so she only stayed for the first half, which was trivia, and we had a blast! Scoring forth from the bottom, our team name was The Targaryens. My wife ended up getting tired and decided to call it a night. I wanted to stay to at least do a song at Karaoke. I had decided the previous day that I was committed to singing and performing Biz Markie's "Just A Friend." So it was decided that I would put my wife in an Uber and send her home, and I would stay and sing my heart out.

Together, we went downstairs to the Uber, and my wife left. I turned around and smoked a J with two dudes that offered me. We talked and hung out. Now a little high, I headed back upstairs. I need to Tarantino the story a bit here. While my wife and I were playing Trivia, we befriended a gay woman named Rachel. Very nice! A little touchy, but whatever! As I was walking up from the joint, I headed back to Rachel because before dropping my wife off in the Uber, Rachel offered me a can of National Bohemian, my favorite beer.

But the funny thing is... My beer is being held by a girl. Now, this girl I clocked by a casual glance. No more than me seeing motion, she had arrived at the bar with a tall white man, kind of dorky looking with glasses, who came to put her coat on a nearby chair. I knew immediately she was a cute mixed girl with light skin, a thick body, and curly hair. But in all honesty, I didn't think much of it. I was out with my wife to do trivia and karaoke, not to pick up women. Well, who's holding my beer when I come back to the area where I was sitting when I was playing trivia? THAT GIRL!!!

Rachel says to me, "Oh man, I didn't know you were coming back!? I gave your Beer to Linda!" Linda offers me her/my beer. I refuse charmingly. She then comes back to me with, "Just fucking take it!" I get taken aback. But I'm still feeling good because of the joint. I come back with, "That was adorably aggressive." She then comes back, "Well, you look adorable in your fucking hat." I was wearing a National Bohemian winter hat, which is cute! Well, I then think of the tall dorky white guy... "What is this man to her?" she couldn't possibly say that if she wanted his girl.

We continue to talk, then it's Rachel's turn to sing. She performs Creep... which I thought was a tad out of place for a karaoke song. But she does a pretty good job, and two more songs go, and it's ME. I'm pumped. I grab the mic. I ask, "How's Everyone Doin'?" And I go in! I kill it! I go back to the group, they are cheering for me! I was in a high. We then see the tall dork say something to Linda, and he walks to the bathroom. Almost immediately, Linda tells me and Rachel that she's on a first date and it's not going well... I get inspired.. "Is this girl feeling me?" "Should I be bold?" I go in. I say, "You should give me your fucking number!" She does. Mind you, this girl is not in the lifestyle! And she decided to give me her Instagram and not her actual phone number. Made me feel more excited somehow.

So Linda leaves... leaving her date behind. Before he even had a chance to sing! I couldn't believe how free this woman was. I then end the night sitting alone looking at her profile. I text my wife telling her I got an Instagram. She's super excited for me. and Floored I scored a contact by none swinger in a non-swinger environment. But who comes to sit next to me?? HER DATE! The Tall Dork. And I'm DMing her in front of him.. but I wanted her to be hot and more fun than he thought she was. She's telling me in DM "She hopes he finds himself" He's telling me that "she was alright looking." Which was wild!

Anyway, long story short. I have since gone on two dates two weeks in a row. A fancy Taco Date on Thursday and a Hipster Bar on a Saturday night. I am very into this girl! I just don't know because this girl isn't in the lifestyle if she is actually into me or even wants to have sex with me down the line. I'm dying to take her out on a solo date this Thursday at the vintage theater The Charles, a place we both already love, independent as we are DEEP film lovers of obscure and independent films. So yeah.. "is this girl into me?" And tell me if you want more content about going on dates with this girl. These are a ton of fun to write.