20 f 20m So, here's the deal with this guy's thought process. Our aquarium plans? Yeah, they got nixed because we both ended up sleeping through the day after a late-night hangout that stretched into the early hours. Next thing I know, he's texting me about making dinner plans, only to cancel at the last minute due to work. Now, despite my clear stance against casual flings, he seemed pretty chill about it. But then, after a few hangouts, things took a turn when we found ourselves tangled up in an intense, hours-long encounter.

Normally, when he leaves, it's with those lingering, intimate hugs. But this time? It's like a switch flipped, and he's gave me casual fist bump, leaving me feeling a bit bewildered and questioning where we stand. And to add to the confusion, he's suggesting we hang out at the aquarium with another friend, making me wonder if he wants to do anything romantic. He suddenly became affectionate these previous few days, but then stopped.

He claims to be starting to care about my thoughts, which is great, but I can't help but notice the lack of reciprocity when it comes to compliments and affection. I'm all about expressing my admiration for him, but it feels like I'm hitting a brick wall. He says he's all about physical touch, but I crave those deep conversations.

I've laid down the law: no physical stuff until we've had a proper date. He's cool with that, but it's got me questioning whether we're really dating or just in some weird 'situation-ship.' Any insights or advice on what might be going on in his head?