I 30F hang out with girlfriends and they usually approach men and act desperate. Dancing and such. then I notice on TikTok women creepily post men who they find attractive. while I sit and do nothing, the men usually approach me. and its the opposite for the ones doing the pursuing and asking men to dance with them. These men usually have gf or wife's. I find it disrespectful. Then I went out to have dinner with my married brother the other day and a lady hit on him. He had his wedding ring on and she was still actively trying to pursue him and hit on him. I had second hand embarrassment and was angry.

And most recently two women in their 50s made a comment about my father, "you are so handsome. Even my daughter said the same thing." My blood was boiling. My father is happily married to my mother. Is there a shortage of men or what? Am I the only who feels the same way? I went to a bachelorette this year and many of the girls were leaving their number behind to random drivers and taxi drivers. The girls were doing all the work.