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He asked me out last week and said a bunch of really sweet things about my personality he likes and admires. And we had a good chat. He said he is developing feelings and wants to keep developing those, otherwise we would need to stop talking.
The issue is that I’m really an unattractive person. And he didn’t even once mention that he thought I was pretty or that I looked nice. It might just be awkward for him, but I honestly don’t want to date him if he isn’t attracted to me.
We didn’t do anything sexual because he knows from other conversations that I am not interested in getting physical quickly.
Should I be worried that he has never commented on how I look? Is it a sign that he maybe just sees me more platonically and is conflating friendship with romantic feelings?
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