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I (29 m) am thinking of ending things with the woman (26 f) Iāve been on a couple dates (3) with over the past month. Some background: Iāve tried to invite her to things but sheās turned me down for reasons that could be legitimate but feel fake. Ex: she wants to get up early to see the sunrise so canāt go out that night or is going out with her cousin to a theme park, only for her cousin to have cancelled. After our dates, there hasnāt been any contact other than a quick goodnight peck, and on our last date I asked if she wanted to come up for a drink afterwards, which she said no, which is again fine if sheās not there yet. I just want it to be a question of when, not if for more. Iād be fine with making out, Iām not demanding sex, just more than the same kiss Iād get in a high school play. Other factors is on our first date she told me about a past ādateā with a guy she was hooking up with so she doesnāt seem to be a āsex-only-in-a-relationshipā girl and asked me how many women I was chatting with before admitting to speaking to two other Guys. Plus the fact, that it takes her awhile to text back (which may be due to work but not to the extent of too busy to respond within the same day) & I always text her 1st. Iām starting to feel like Iām a backup option for if she doesnāt have other plans or if youāve been around dating threads the āgood to settle down but not for funā guy that sheās not that into. Iām thinking of asking if she wants to grab dinner and come to my place for a quiet night with a movie to see if things progress or should I just end it?
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