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Unsure whether to ask her out again or end things
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I (29 m) am thinking of ending things with the woman (26 f) Iā€™ve been on a couple dates (3) with over the past month. Some background: Iā€™ve tried to invite her to things but sheā€™s turned me down for reasons that could be legitimate but feel fake. Ex: she wants to get up early to see the sunrise so canā€™t go out that night or is going out with her cousin to a theme park, only for her cousin to have cancelled. After our dates, there hasnā€™t been any contact other than a quick goodnight peck, and on our last date I asked if she wanted to come up for a drink afterwards, which she said no, which is again fine if sheā€™s not there yet. I just want it to be a question of when, not if for more. Iā€™d be fine with making out, Iā€™m not demanding sex, just more than the same kiss Iā€™d get in a high school play. Other factors is on our first date she told me about a past ā€œdateā€ with a guy she was hooking up with so she doesnā€™t seem to be a ā€œsex-only-in-a-relationshipā€ girl and asked me how many women I was chatting with before admitting to speaking to two other Guys. Plus the fact, that it takes her awhile to text back (which may be due to work but not to the extent of too busy to respond within the same day) & I always text her 1st. Iā€™m starting to feel like Iā€™m a backup option for if she doesnā€™t have other plans or if youā€™ve been around dating threads the ā€œgood to settle down but not for funā€ guy that sheā€™s not that into. Iā€™m thinking of asking if she wants to grab dinner and come to my place for a quiet night with a movie to see if things progress or should I just end it?

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