So i met this girl last week. We went on our first date Thursday and hit it off instantly. I’ve honestly only been actively dating for a month or two, i didnt expect the date to go far and didnt do anything extravagant to impress her. I have just been going a date or two here and there, talking to the girl, enjoy the vibes, getting to know her and then continuing on with my life.

I literally expected the same on this date. Anyway the date went so well, she invited me back to her place. We hung out, talked a little bit, ended up making out before i left. The next day she asks me to come over. We keep talking and then end up having sex the entire night.

Basically she is so attached to me now. Like i can tell she likes me alot and i cant tell if shes love bombing or just genuinely gets attached quickly.

She’s already calling me babe, she was staring at me while i rested my eyes, shes already asking me what i want for christmas and its just a little overwhelming.

Me on the other hand , i just got out of a toxic relationship a few months ago, i was just starting to get comfortable being alone and working on myself and then she came along.

Dont get me wrong i like this girl, she literally checks all the boxes but im not ready to commit to another relationship.

Ive already told her i wanted to take her to the state fair this friday but i dont know how to tell her to fall back a little.

Its natural for me to be thoughtful, kind and romantic for a girl that i genuinely like, so im not trying to lead her on. Im just doing what feels natural, but i also know im not ready for commitment.

I know i need to have this conversation with her soon, but i feel like either way i do it, im going to come across like another asshole that just wanted to have sex.

Im not sure how to go about it.