Everything about our date was fine up until the end… we had sex! the sex was fine but i wanted to be extra so i went down on him and while doing so i accidentally bit this poor man’s penis. it hurt him so bad he had to leave… he told me he’d still like to see me and he enjoyed his time with me. i highly doubted that he was going to hit me up again bc well i just nipped his dick! YES IM SUPER EMBARRASSED

anyways this happened yesterday and he just texted me this morning asking if i have any plans today. i really had a good time yesterday and if he wants to hook up again too that’s fine. i think bc i expected him to not reach out again i didn’t really care but bc he did i don’t know how to go about things now. i don’t want to hang out if that’s all you want is sex (you can just ask. i hate wasting time with a burning passion) but if you’re really interested and your word/actions are truthful i’d like that too. i guess what i need help with is how do i ask about intentions without making it seem like i’m giving him an ultimatum. we just met so i’m not really tripping over fwb or seriously wanting to know me but i do want to get it out of the way since he’s here for “round 2” lol

also is there such thing as too soon for a second date? would i look toooo available if i say i’m free today let’s hang? or should i say next weekend? or sunday after work?

and lastly for my astrology lovers: he’s a capricorn