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Long story short, been single over a year, and having a very successful hoe phase. A friend introduced me to this amazing woman who I thought was looking to hook up or what not. Right away found out she was not searching for anything, she just let our mutual friend give her IG just to shut her up lol we still ended up talking and she went out on a date with me and the rest is history. I'm a single father, she's a single mother. We both work and are busy so we are lucky if we see each other once or twice a week. When we are together it's all good, vibes and attraction is there, and we have allot of similar interests and values, and sexually we connect. Texting with her is hard, because she can be really dry. On the phone we can go for hours, and flows much better but we can't always be on the phone. I've never had issues talking to women, or texting but idk why with her it's hard. Occasionally she will text me first, but 99% of the time it's me. She tells me if she's talking to me and spending time with me that means she likes me, cause she wont put up with anyone she doesnt like. But from my understanding when a women likes a man, she will always want to talk to him, and be around him as much as possible. Granted she does work 2 jobs, and is doing it all on her own witch I respect and admire. Idk why with almost every other woman it's easy to text, but her feels hard. Like I always need to bring my A game and idk if I'm over thinking because I'm so into her, or it's something I should communicate moving forward, I do feel guilty though cause she made it clear from the beginning that she is always busy. She's very funny, mature, sophisticated, smart, and pessimistic. She's been hurt in the past before and hasn't dated like at all since leaving her BD. So idk if she's just not used to dating someone and giving them attention? I'm all lost. Any tips on how I can improve with a woman like her, to keep her engaged better in texts? She loves books, movies, music. Sexting isn't her thing, even when I compliment her or flirt she doesn't receive it well. Like she doesn't believe me, so it throws me off. If your a woman like this, or been with a person like this, what is the best thing to do? I have met her closest friends, and some family. This weekend I will meet her dad. So she must like me right? What am I missing? Sorry for being everywhere. I am so in my head.
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