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I've been seeing this guy exclusively (mutually agreed) for about 2 months now. We have a connection but it's not deep. He's nice, we get along, and we always have a good time together. No drama, no insane chemistry, I just feel peaceful.
So he's been talking about the potential of him moving to another country. He wants to, but the chance is quite slim. Even if it happens, it would be in the next March, or later than that. Till next March, if we still are seeing each other, it would be 8 months.
I definitely will not do a LDR. I'm quite clear to him from the beginning even without him mentioned about the potential of moving.
Earlier this week we had a chat, and I told him that I haven't felt a deep connection with him. He said "You can't push for things, you gotta give it time and let things grow naturally". I agree.
I'm seeking a serious long relationship, and he said he is as well.
IDK how I feel about him talking about his future plans without even considering I might be in it as well. I understand that we are not in a committed relationship, and we've only known each other for 2 months yet, too many uncertainties for him and I in the future. But it's not a good feeling that he's not considering there might be a chance that we could be in a serious relationship.
I feel it's silly if I just end it now. I do want to give it a chance to see if it goes further. But at the same time I don't want to get into a relationship and then just ended up breaking up if he does need to move.
How should I approach this situation?
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