Met a girl back in May, had my 6th date with her last week. We had sex for the first time, and things were mostly hot and heavy before through texting . She went away this weekend, and the texts have stopped flowing in from her. The sex was GREAT, I made her orgasm five times (supposedly) so im not worried about that. Unfortunately, she has kind of stopped responding to texts, won't initiate, but she'll respond if I message her.

I'm falling back 100% and going cold on her for a week. No contact, no nothing. I'll make a date in a week, or try to, and if she declines, say its over forever. What do you guys think happened? Things were going so well. To be fair, I Told her I liked her, asked if she wanted to be exclusive, and she told me she didnt wanna commit now (ouch). So I'm thinking between sex and telling her that, maybe she feels scared and too smothered now?

In either case, I'm not contacting her AT ALL. Things were going so well, now shes ice cold. Reallym essed up.