Hi all, hope you are having a great day. I’m a 36-year-old guy from Chicago who has never dated. I’m looking for advice to help me revamp myself to attract a woman.

About me: I’m a kind and empathetic person, love working out, and exploring different cuisines, and new places. I’m constantly trying to learn new things and am open to constructive criticism. I am well-qualified professionally. I am physically fit. I am also somewhat of an introvert and getting rejections make it harder to come out of it.

I am really tired of being ignored whenever I try to strike up a conversation with any woman I am attracted to in a bar. I see other guys successfully hitting on them and even making out in front of me. I feel like the most unattractive guy in the universe and am puzzled by this.

Do you have any advice on how to become more attractive to women? I see these dating masterclasses/ services but they seem too pricey and a rip-off.

Thanks!