Hey there, fellow Redditors! I’m a 36-year-old guy from Chicago who has never dated and I’m ready to break free from it. I’m looking for advice to help me revamp myself to attract a woman.

A little about me: I’m a kind and empathetic person, always willing to lend a listening ear to friends and loved ones. I have a passion for music, coffee, and exploring new places. I’m constantly trying to learn new things and am open to constructive criticism. I am well-qualified professionally with Masters from an Ivy League School.

I have never dated anyone and I am really tired of being ignored whenever I try to strike a conversation with any woman I am attracted to. I feel like the most unattractive guy in the universe and am puzzled by this. Also, just being transparent, I am Asian but I like Caucasian women.

Do you have any advice on how to become more attractive to women? I see these dating masterclasses/ services but they seem too pricey. Also, do you have any suggestions on how to find a wingwoman who can help me achieve these goals? Any tips or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks in advance for your help!