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So i (22F) recently moved to a college area and figured I’d try to meet new people in the area. I met a guy (22M) off a dating app and we decided to get food and go see a movie together.
Everything started off kinda weird because he seemed super nervous so I tried to lead most of the conversations to make him ease up a little bit but I found myself having to do that the whole night. While at the restaurant we sat across from each other, and I noticed he liked to maintain eye contact without adding much to the conversation so we had a few awkward silence moments. But I just tried to keep the energy light by making jokes and just talk about his work,school life, etc.
After lunch we walked around a little then headed to the movies. I did offer to pay for the tickets since he paid for lunch but he declined my offer and even bought the snacks. We arrived to the movie really early and we were the only ones there for about 20 minutes so we chatted up a bit beforehand. I could tell he was getting more comfortable but we really couldn’t have an in depth conversation about anything, I sorta feel like I was asking him questions all night
Once the movie started I literally forgot he was there until he had to use the bathroom, afterwards I asked what his thoughts were and all I got was “it was cool”. I know it’s weird but I’m a movie buff and I love discussing them but he seemed uninterested so we said our goodbyes and that was the end of that.
We text a little afterwards and yesterday he mentions that he’s permanently moving to another state in a month be he’d like to continue taking me out until then. That took me by shock because he didn’t mention it before and during our date. Honestly if I’d known I’m not sure if I’d still would’ve gone.
Should I end things now? I feel like it would be a waste of time for me to continue hanging out just for him to leave.
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