I (23M) have noticed a lot of people in my college are dating, and me being who I am, starts overthinking that if I should start get anyone just to not feel the dreaded FOMO. This obssession over dating anyone has started since end of high school when I also noticed others doing it too. However I feel that no one would ever like me for what I like, and its as if the only way to get anyone to like me is to get rid of every interests I have, effectively turning into a different person. (Yes, my interests are driving women away)

Additionally, hearing anyone mentioning relationships in any capacity also makes me paranoid about not able to find anyone to like me, which is painful.